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The Givers

My father told me when I was young that the world was divided into givers and takers.  He reminded me when I was acting like a taker.   I'm sure that he had to remind me more than once.  I've always admired those who are born givers.  They get very excited to give.  They reach out and help where they see a need.  They see those needs before we do.  They seem to spend their lives looking for ways to help others.  They always give the perfect presents. You know a few of these people.  We all do.  God bless them.   Then there are the givers who give above and beyond there ability at every chance they get.  Their generosity is relentless and sweet and you just want to hug them as they always know how to make you feel special.   They fill me with admiration and awe.  They are never takers.  Then there are those magical people who always give you just the thing that you were going to get yourself.  They are though...

Hope and the Second Opinion

I'm lucky and I know I'm lucky.  I feel very lucky to live near New York which is rich with doctors who are great thinkers and innovators.  I had the privilege of meeting a new doctor this week for a second opinion.   He was congenial and kind and fun to talk to.   Then the breakthrough happened. "Your bone marrow cancer and the cancer in your blood are not as bad as the tumor is on your spine.  What would you think if we stopped the KRD (chemotherapy) and just focus some strong radiation on your spine to eliminate the tumor?  You are too young to have to go through years of chemotherapy."  I do indeed love being told I am young.  I am not.   I almost got up and danced.  This was the most thrilling idea anyone has presented to me since November 1.  No chemo means that maybe my immune system could have a little break.  Gamma globulin therapy infusions could support my immune system.   No serious sides effects of those stron...